Posted date: 11 Jan 2026
The Fire. Eat. Talk is a simple, powerful card game designed to help men start meaningful, proper conversations - without any pressure or awkwardness.
The deck includes 104 questions across four suits:
Personal Reflection - (Hearts)
Relationships & Manhood - (Diamonds)
Purpose & Legacy - (Spades)
Action & Challenge - (Clubs)
Each card offers two ways to play:
Spark — like a chicken korma. Safe, easy to answer, not going to cause an upset.
Blaze — the vindaloo or phaal. Spicier questions as the card value increases, be warned!
Players can always pass if the question is just too spicy, we’ve included a few ‘nope’ cards.
This game is perfect for men’s groups, small groups, retreats, or wherever you gather a few men together and want to talk, we have found it is a great way to move beyond the wall of manners and polite chit chat.